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Nailing Down the Financial Strategy Before Marriage

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Within the orbit of my discussion today with some ladies, I find out to believe in this theory . Economic and financial issues probably cause more marital problem than any other area. Continual disagreements over money or financial management practices cause serious hurt and injury to any relationship. Long before they say they say "I DO" couples should discuss and nail down the financial strategy they will take into marriage. 1. Will husband alone work outside the home, or will both husband and wife work? 2. Will they work a job as an employee of someone else or will they start their own business? 3. In economic affairs, will both partner know how much they earn? 4. Will the responsibility of the expense base on both partner or a partner (paying the light bill, puting the gas in the car, rent payment, investment,  insurance children fees, "the main starting point of the discussion" hair-plaiting etc)? But my conclusion on this is that,  there is no room

Stop Seeking For The Approval Of Men

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Galatians 1:10 ESV For am I now seeking the approval of man, or of God? Or am I trying to please man? If I were still trying to please man, I would not be a servant of Christ. Do you live under a burden of guilt and condemnation…feeling unrighteous, unworthy, and insecure? Are you a people-pleaser, always looking for the approval of others? If the answer to any of these is yes, then God wants to help you move beyond those feelings, Why? Because they not only affect your personal relationships, but also your prayer life and your ability to be promoted. And I can tell you from personal experience, they certainly steal your joy and your peace—and that is not God's will for you or anyone else. I believe there are two states that can cause us to desire the approval of people: being emotionally wounded and being caught in a pit of self-pity. Wounds that won’t heal Because I grew up in an environment of sexual and verbal abuse, I thought I was wounded beyond healing. W